April 1st, 2007

REAL SPIRIT OF SPORTS

SPORTS AND HUMILITY

By Dave Branon

READ: Ephesians 4: 1-3
 

On May 2, 2003, my daughter Melissa's high school paid her a great honor by dedicating its new athletic field in her memory. At the ceremony to mark the opening of the Melissa Branon Memorial Softball Field, the school unveiled a stone marker to remind future generations of the girl who wore number 11.

On that marker is etched: "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love" (Ephesians 4:2 NIV) -- a verse Melissa had marked in her Bible.

So often in life, the words humble and gentle don't seem to belong. Instead, the words pride and harshness mark the way success is measured. Yet Melissa and her friends were able to compete successfully in high school athletics without displaying either of the those characteristics.

One of Melissa's teammates wrote of her: "The way you never backed down, always kept going, and never gave up totally inspired me." That's how she and her teammates played for God's glory --- without arrogance.

Competition, handled properly, can have its place in our lives. But we should always remember to be humble and gentle in everything we do. We must reflect the characteristics of a Christlike life.


"True greatness does not come to those who strive for worldly fame; it lies instead with those who choose to serve in Jesus' name."
- D. De Haan
 
 
BE HUMBLE AND YOU WILL NOT STUMBLE.
 

***REFLECTION***

 

The real essence of sportsmanship is the godly approach of the players and anyone linked to them -- few to mention are the spectators and team builders -- in a certain outcome of a particular competition; whether it is favorable or not to their desires.

I've made it a habit myself not to take sports too personally contrary to what I've always done before, which could potentially ensue depression.

In other terms, I gracefully accept defeat while I nobly hoist a banner of humility on the heels of triumph --- living up to the billing of the above-mentioned essence of pure sports glory.

One important facet of a modest sports-person is character standpoint. And that character must be built upon not on the final results but on the competitive spirit of the competitor; thus, taking a whole lot different perception and utterly honed respect from the opponent and from the world that have kept its eye throughout the battle.

IT'S NOT WHETHER YOU WIN OR LOSE THAT MATTERS. HOW THE GAME IS PLAYED IS THE MOST IMPORTANT.
Currently feeling: humbled
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August 3rd, 2008

UNAPPRECIATED

When you make right and noble deeds, no one remembers.

The modest works come to pass without anyone noticing or even bothering to give credit to whom credit is due.

However, when you've done something wrong, people tend to store those vividly odious thoughts in memory.

Faults are always the highlight reel in most places, camaraderies, organizations, and relationships alike, oftentimes paving the way for disconnection in accountability of particular individuals.

Perhaps one of life's most perceived twists.

Maybe an incorrigible distorted disposition for most.

Perhaps a speedbump along the way to reckon with unwantedly.

Daunting, yes. Repugnant, absolutely.

Misdoings are the usually magnified elements.

Life truly is wonderful!

Currently feeling: irate
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June 26th, 2008

LAKERS: A DYNASTY IN THE MAKING

http://helloworld24.multiply.com/journal/item/51/

Great articles about thoughts with regard to the bright future that lay ahead firmly for the entire Purple and Gold Nation.

The moment we lost to Boston in this year's finals, I wasn't as devastated as I'm supposed to be.

Glimmers of hope for the meanwhile soothe pain of that gnawing defeat, as the sting figures to last for just a short time.

Indeed. If you think L.A. has been impressive during its 12-3 romp through the playoffs, just wait until Andrew Bynum is healthy again.

Bryant will bring the Lakers back -- quietly

By Stan McNeal, sportingnews.com

Don't look for Kobe Bryant ranting in any parking lots this summer. He'll be too busy with the U.S. Olympic team, for one thing. But that's not the only reason:

He'll be honing his stand-up routine. At his press briefings during The Finals, win or lose, Bryant was full of happy talk.

On missing seven of 18 free throws in Game 3: "It felt like I was in a foreign territory because I haven't been there in so long. It's like somebody took me and just dropped me off in the middle of Shanghai with no translator and no dictionary. It was crazy."

On what he told the team at practice after the Lakers blew a 24-point lead and lost Game 4: "I borrowed Phil's peace pipe. We had a big kumbaya meeting."

On trying to rally the Lakers in Game 2, when they nearly overcame a 24-point deficit in the fourth quarter: "Get our beep in gear. Play beep harder, a bunch of other beeps. It's beep, beep, beep, beep, beep. Eddie Murphy Raw times 10."

He's growing up. Though no one would be exactly stunned if Bryant reverted to immature ways, he said throughout the playoffs that he has learned his lesson about trying to play general manager. Last summer, Bryant was videotaped going off on Lakers G.M. Mitch Kupchak and owner Jerry Buss and imploring the Lakers to include Andrew Bynum in a deal for Jason Kidd.

Bynum will be back. The 20-year-old center missed the final three months of the regular season and the playoffs following knee surgery. He said last week that he still is a couple of weeks away from getting serious about his rehab but hopes to be ready by October.

If Bynum returns at full strength which can't be considered a certainty at this point--the Lakers will be able to start dual 7 footers in Bynum and Pau Gasol, plus 6-10 forward Lamar Odom. That should be enough front-line help to make Bryant happy. Enough to keep him out of parking lots, anyway.


A Laker Dynasty?

http://www.andrewbynum.org/game-3-thoughts.php

Now should the Celtics be worried? I’m not sure about Boston’s players and coaches, but I do think all non-Laker fans should be a bit concerned.

Next year the Lakers will have the following above average players who will be younger than thirty: Andrew Bynum (21 years old), Jordan Farmar (22 years old), Trevor Ariza (23 years old), Sasha Vujacic (24 years old), Pau Gasol (28 years old), Luke Walton (28 years old), Lamar Odom (29 years old). These seven players are joined by Kobe, who will only by 30 years old next season.

In contrast, the Celtics - the best team in the 2007-08 regular season - employ the following above average players: Rajon Rondo (22 years old), Kendrick Perkins (24 years old), Leon Powe (25 years old), Eddie House (30 years old), Paul Pierce (31 years old), Kevin Garnett (32 years old), James Posey (32 years old), Ray Allen (33 years old), P.J. Brown (39 years old). Yes, this is a nice collection of talent. But two-thirds of the above average players employed by Boston in 2007-08 will be thirty years or older in 2008-09. In other words, Boston’s window is closing fast.

If we look back at the Lakers, we see that LA has both starters and bench players who are both young and who can produce wins in large quantities. Such a collection of talent has to be the early favorites to win in 2009. And given the age of these players, we might be seeing the beginnings of yet another Lakers dynasty. In sum, the Lakers might be winning a number of titles after this season. Therefore, non-Laker fans might have another reason for Boston to win this year.

Let me close by noting that if you are a Lakers fan, seeing your team win in 2008, 2009, 2010, etc… is going to be fun. But if you are not - and I assume most NBA fans are in the “not” category - NBA basketball might be on the verge of less interesting times. At least, I think seeing the Lakers win year after year is less interesting for the majority of basketball fans who do not “Love LA.” So for this year, all non-LA fans should hope the Celtics can “Beat LA.” Because I don’t think that’s going to happen in 2009 (or 2010, etc&hellip.

Currently feeling: JUBILANT/EXCITED
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June 20th, 2008

GHOSTS OF CELTICS PAST

http://helloworld24.multiply.com/journal/item/50

Celtics did it again at the expense of the Lakers

Now we know, after being dropped inside the shoe of those past frustrated hopefuls, how it must have felt back then battling those dreadful demons from Beantown

Laker fans of today's generation finally had their share of emotional sting being haunted again and again by thoughts about failure to subdue the Celtic mystique.

The leprechauns did it again. The mastery and all those jinx revisited in one dramatic finals series filled with lofty expectations. It hurts. We're on this nasty side of history, and to be honest with everyone of you, I want to exact revenge pretty badly.
 
During the first two games held at the TD Banknorth Garden in Boston, it's apparent the Lakers were just a quality big man away from stealing either or both matches, being outrebounded 46-33 and falling short of one stirring comeback late in the game simply tell a lot about something they've been missing all along.

**Cough**Bynumite**Cough**

The outcome of the series should have been a different story had the Lakers been able to secure that breath-taking Game 4 and not given away a 24-point advantage.

The ultimate turning point of that game, fans couldn't get over with for at least the next twelve months or so, was when the Lakers were up twelve in the third, and then Kobe dishing out a pass to Pau Gasol beneath the basket who missed on a dunk -- a crucial play that must have given the Lakers a 14-point cushion; instead, Paul Pierce sprinted on the other end for a layup plus a foul, trimming the lead to nine points and the Celtics then built their momentum from there. The pivotal quarter ended with the Celtics trailing the Lakers by two, but what if Pau didn't miss on that wide-open attempt?

Then came the opening of the final quarter with Kobe assisting Ronny Turiaf underneath who was hacked, then went to the foul line and badly missed both shots at the charity stripes. Los Angeles fell just a couple of well-executed plays short of the victory that could have altered the entire complexion of the series, paving the way for a historic comeback and a horrifying close out game that resemble that of the infamous Game 1 of the '85 finals, dubbed as the Memorial Day Massacre.

What's left to ponder now inside for the multitude of hopefuls worldwide were the startling thoughts of "What if" . . . . "What could have been" . . . .

The sting remains. The wounds left open. The bleeding that probably won't cease until at least June of next year.

Can't wait for 2009. Revenge couldn't be any sweeter. Cheer up!
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June 18th, 2008

CELTICS CHAMPIONSHIP: A THORN IN THE LUNG OF LOS ANGELES BASKETBALL


http://helloworld24.multiply.com/journal/item/49/

The Lakers were throttled once again at the hands of the Mighty Celtics, a classic Boston throbbing of Los Angeles basketball team on a world championship stage, but that could have been a different story this year with a legitimate center alongside Kobe and co.

With Bynum back, Celtics must prove their 2008 crown wasn't tainted

Celtics fans could revel in their triumph, but please don't gloat too much over us.

Let's put it this way, please give us a chance to redeem ourselves.

Let's own these finals stage again come 2009, and with our beloved young center, Andrew Bynum, back at full strength and who figures to get better, let's see who's the real best team here.

A big congratulations to the gang green Celtics!

It's really a shame our season would have to end that way.

Atrocious. But we'll take that. There ain't anything we can do.

Here's a simple note Laker fans can look forward to and be pumped up enough for the upcoming season:

A Lakers 2009 title would erase glimpses of that painful finals series loss in memory, coming from the hands of the Mighty Celtics yet again, and most important, establish the franchise as the team of the decade. A Kobe fourth championship would earn the club its sixth finals appearance of the new millennium and fourth title of the decade, the most among other teams.

I wish us all the best in the coming years.

Our team was built for the long run. We have guys who are relatively young at this stage in their careers. They have a lot of potential and lofty promises ahead which figure to be a silver lining right in the face of this esteem-gnawing setback.

I hope Phil Jackson puts premium on defense-first approach. They have to come back a better defensive team.

Let's move on and keep the faith up!

God bless us all!

Currently feeling: OPTIMISTIC
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June 14th, 2008

LAKERS SEASON AT CROSSROADS


http://helloworld24.multiply.com/journal/item/48


I was haunted relentlessly time and time again by those startling images from that soul-gnawing Game 4 debacle.

It's great to know, we'll still have a lot of championship opportunities ahead us.

Remember, we made this run without a legitimate center.

It's good to know we'll have that reinforcement coming in 2009 that we can look forward to.

I could humbly say I sense a 65+ win Lakers season on the way, with them being one of the league's top defensive teams.

If we lose another game, and come back home for vacation, one thing that's hard to deal with is the pain of waiting. You'd likely have to wrestle with that all off-season long, and that's way too tough to digest.

But you know, at the end of the day, if you hold on to that faith and continue to believe, someday you'd realize it's all worth it after all. (^^,)

A badge of experience added to our young gunners' arsenal, it's going to be a great asset heading into the next couple of seasons. =)

God is good all the time! So grateful He blessed us with a Pau Gasol that immediately catapulted the Lakers into one of the league's elite squads.

Such a bitter taste of disappointment doesn't mean the end of all those lofty dreams.

As for me, an absurd and crazy hopeful, the journey has just begun.

I have encountered this small passage from one of my all-time favorite Christian books. I loved the message so much that I embraced it dearly with grace and a heart of gratitude.

http://www.rbc.org/devotionals/our-daily-bread/2007/04/13/devotion.aspx

Just leave this verse as a fitting footnote to this blog entry. Hope my readers enjoy it!

When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, a man cannot discover anything about his future.
- Ecclesiastes 7:14
Currently feeling: indescribable
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April 29th, 2008

LAKERS ALL THE WAY -- 12 TO GO!!!

L.A. Lakers 107, Denver Nuggets 101
F

Los Angeles sweeps series 4-0


Kobe comes around in 4th, Lakers dismantle Nuggets; to face Jazz/Rockets in the second round

What a sigh of relief! (^^,)

I almost broke into tears, and truly, I did. =)

I wish the Nuggets all the best. I hope they come back ready for next season, and with a vengeance. It just happened to be the Lakers' time this year. (^_^)

Nonetheless, I still love the Denver Nuggets and Melo and 'The Answer' would always be two of my top favorite professional ballers.

I'd be thrilled to see Carmelo team up with Kobe during the summer in the United States' quest to reclaim their long-lost basketball glory.



A MESSAGE BTW TO ALL MY COMRADES OUT THERE:


WE ARE GONNA ROCK THE WORLD THIS JUNE!!!!!!


WE'RE FROM L.A., AND WE ARE GONNA GO ALL THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!! (^_^)
 
 

That's not me bragging, that's me believing. Believing in us, even in the most depressing of all circumstances.

And trust me, you ask anyone who's ever won a ring, anyone who's ever been a champion --- they believe too. (^^,)

We're NOT here to lose! =)


KOBE BRYANT a.k.a. THE BLACK MAMBA -- ALL HAIL THE 2008 MVP!!!


SWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP!!!!

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!

I BLEED PURPLE AND GOLD!!!

LET'S THROW IN THE PARADE NOW LAKERS NATION!!!

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April 16th, 2008

LAKERS CONQUER TOP SEED!!!!

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebah!

I BLEED PURPLE AND GOLD!!!!

IT'S OUR TIME BABY!!!

CITY OF ANGELS THROW IN THE PARADE NOW!!!

IT'S GONNA REIGN PURPLE AND GOLD THIS JUNE 2008!!!!


It's so amazing to witness and look back on how Kobe and crew concluded this fantastic season.

They started out with the burden of chaos during the offseason, to being the number one seed and the best team in the hyper-competitive western conference!

Wonderful! =)

Finally, those disbandment speculations have come to rest!

Wow! It's the Lakers and Nuggets in the first round! Supposedly my dream Western Conference finals matchup. Hopefully, in the future. =) May the best team win! I love them both!

Praise the Lord our God for the victories that we've had. And exalt the Lord God for not dismantling our beloved Lakers!

Yeah!

TO HIM WHO IS ABLE, TO DO EXCEEDINGLY, ABUNDANTLY, MORE THAN ALL THAT WE COULD POSSIBLY ASK OR IMAGINE (Ephesians 3:20) -- TO HIM BE ALL THE GLORY AND PRAISES!

GOD BLESS US!
Currently feeling: jubilant
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February 4th, 2008

PAU GASOL HAPPY WITH LAKERS

PAU GASOL: I'M HAPPY TO BE A LAKER."


Well, he should be.

Ask Karl Malone.

Get Gary Payton's comments.

Maybe, Charles Barkley would not have disagreed.

I myself would kill just to play with guys that good, just to be in proper position more inclined with the tendency of winning -- remote from public disgrace and close to fame and fortune that go along with it.

Wish you the best Pau!

You've got the most dominant and arguably, the best in the game, rolling along with you; and teammates you've always wished for -- guys whom you could dearly rely upon.

A great organization.

Not to mention, the most brilliant strategist and mentor to ever set foot on a basketball court in Phil Jackson, who serves as a guiding force which keys your viable future and present successes.

I'm so excited. I was all too pumped up! I'm sure, all the millions of hopefuls worldwide celebrate alike!

Wish us all the best this year and in years to come.

God bless us!

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